# Christmas with long-distance grandparents: ideas that bring you closer

Updated 2026-11-05

To share Christmas with faraway grandparents, plan one call with a job (opening one gift each, a carol, a story read aloud), keep a few traditions in both homes on the same day, mail anything physical by mid-December, and give a gift that keeps you in touch in January, when the decorations are down and everyone misses each other.

## How do you plan a Christmas call that isn't chaos?

- Pick the time in advance, allowing for time zones, and keep it short: 20 to 30 minutes.
- Give it a shape: each grandchild opens one gift from the grandparents on camera, the grandparents open one from the kids.
- Put the phone or tablet on a stand at a child's eye level, not in someone's hand.
- End with something together: a carol, a toast, or everyone saying one favorite moment of the year.

## Which traditions can you keep in two homes at once?

- Bake the same cookies on the same day, from the grandparent's recipe, and compare results on video.
- A Christmas Eve story: the grandparent reads the same book every year, live or recorded.
- Matching ornaments: each year, one for the grandparents' tree and one for yours.
- An advent countdown with a small question for the grandparent each day, asked on calls or by voice note.
- Watch the same holiday movie on the same night and text each other your favorite lines.

## When should you mail gifts so they arrive in time?

For 2026, the US Postal Service recommends mailing by December 17 for Ground Advantage and First-Class Mail within the lower 48 states, December 18 for Priority Mail and December 19 for Priority Mail Express. For international mail it recommends December 9 for First-Class Package International and Priority Mail International, and December 16 for Priority Mail Express International. Earlier is safer.

Running late? Gifts that arrive by email (tickets, a class, a weekly activity with the grandkids) need no shipping at all.

## What can the grandkids make for them?

- A drawn Christmas card, with the original posted and a photo sent the same day.
- A short video of each child singing, or explaining what they love about their grandparent.
- A coupon book of calls: a story call, a recipe call, a game call.
- A list of questions they want to ask their grandparents in the new year.

## What if you can't be together on the day?

Pick another day to be "your" Christmas together: the weekend before, the day after, or Epiphany on January 6. The date matters far less to kids than the ritual. A call where everyone wears the same silly hat can become the tradition they remember.

## What can you start in January?

The weeks after the holidays can feel very quiet for grandparents who live far away. A gift that begins in January, such as a weekly call ritual, a shared book or a game played together, gives everyone something to look forward to once the tree comes down. Our holiday gift cards start on January 3, 2027 by default for exactly this reason.

## Sources

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- [USPS: 2026 holiday shipping deadlines](https://www.usps.com/holiday/holiday-shipping-dates.htm) (checked Nov 5, 2026)

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- [Lunar New Year with grandparents abroad](https://www.cluemoo.com/guides/lunar-new-year-with-grandparents-abroad)
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